It is funny how people react when I say I am a walking miracle. Half of the time they think I am crazy which they are partly right. I certainly am different.
The definition of miracle goes something like this: an achievement, or an outstanding example of something.
So yes I am a fucking miracle.
Being a miracle doesn't just happen. It is a straight up balls out maneuver that takes place because of hard work, determination, being uncomfortable often, kicking fear in the face & believing in your ability beyond all else. It is a daily effort fueled by self love.
It is also not for the faint of heart. My journey has included some big ass jumps.
I am not hear to say others cannot tap their miracle status because if that was the case than I would be a straight up asshole which I am not. I am 100% committed to community & inspiring others to find their miracle life.
What I am saying is you gotta really believe in yourself 100%. You need to care about you above all others & be prepared to jump & jump & jump & jump until you are where you want to be.
Nothing or no one can stand in your way. No matter what.
This is where it gets tricky. Caring about yourself above all others.
I remember my therapist many years ago telling me I needed to take care of me in order to take care of others. I never understood how that could be possible? The enabler in me thought taking care of others especially your kids was most important to put 1st & what I did for most of my life.
Guess what? WRONG again V.
Once I started to put my needs & desires 1st the doors began to open wide for my miracle life to unfold.
Some of the huge jumps that made this all possible are:
- Moving across the country knowing no one due to temperature regulation issues thanks to the bastard known as Multiple Sclerosis (MS)
- Cutting off family & friends that are toxic.
- Going to Burning Man very sick with MS
- Using food as medicine
- Stopping all prescription drugs
- Quit smoking
- Quit alcohol
- Preparing most of my meals & seldom eating out.
- Following my circadian rhythm
- No longer seeing traditional medicine docs and/or having any tests with regard to the treatment of MS
- Walking away from a business that had my remaining life savings on moral principle & a toxic business partner
- Deciding to live independently when I was still unable to do basic functions
- Getting a new car when I could barely drive
- Selling all my possessions to become homeless
- Traveling the USA alone living with strangers
Each of these steps were hard & HUGE efforts to me.
Last but not least, the #1 most important reason I am a miracle is because once I make up my mind about something I do it. Without fear or anyone's influence changing my thoughts. I am not saying I am not open to the opinion of others. Before I decide a path I have already considered outcomes by playing 'chess' in my minds eye. Many if not most of the above mentioned changes were well thought out & once the decision was made to jump I jumped never looking back.
I chose to never have a life of regrets.
The core of my person is a headstrong, balls out kinda gal & also the reason I am a miracle. Many love to applaud my accomplishments yet wishing to change my person. You cannot have it both ways.
During my tour you can sense those in the room when I am speaking who cringe with every curse word, struggle with my honesty & have a hard time with my 'in your face' attitude. However rest assured without all of those the miracle of PaleoBOSS Lady would not exist.
I think what throws people off the most is that I am so comfortable being me I clearly do not give a fuck what others think. I simply love me, my mission & my person.
I may feel others uneasiness or judgement, but never does it cause me to stray from my dreams, desires & authentic self. I see their energy reflecting their own desires to be true to themselves rather than having anything to do with me. It is always their issue because we all get to chose how we live our lives.
Isn't it time you found your voice to start tapping your miracle life? Start jumping & watch it unfold is my story.
Hate me or love me know one thing for certain I always speak my truth & nothing I do is motivated by consumer driven ideal's. My goals are motivated 100% by self love. The end.
This my friends is another reason I am a BOSS.
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